Hi Holli, Jacqui, Around 4-5 years ago I was heading somewhere in the Caribbean to visit you Holli and John on the boat. We arranged for Jan to drop a few things off at my place downtown so I could take with me to Holli. Jan drove all the way to my condo and I got in the passenger seat and we had a lovely chat. She gave me lots of beautifully packaged gifts for Holli. It was so touching to see a Mom with an adult daughter still put so much love and effort into wrapping up necessities and gifts. My deepest sympathies. big hug xox