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Jean and David Aston planted 3 trees in memory of Robert Alexander
Thursday, July 9, 2020
3 trees were planted in memory of
Robert Pattison Alexander
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Valerie we share your loss. Bob was a wonderful man, a very dear friend and a much loved brother. May your memories bring you peace at this time.
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Rob & Joline Brant posted a condolence
Thursday, August 27, 2020
Many memories of lots of laughs and his big smile. I looked forward to hearing his views on just about anything. You knew you would learn something new and it was always a test of your own social conscience. Rest In Peace Uncle Bob.
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Reinolde (Renee) van Weringh posted a condolence
Sunday, July 12, 2020
Many great memories from many years ago at Camp Iawah.
My sincere condolences. Wishing you peace and strength during this time.
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Jean Aston posted a condolence
Thursday, July 9, 2020
Bob was my big brother and best friend.
I have such wonderful memories of times with him as his children and ours grew up. We would often stay at mom and dad’s cottage and the rest of the family who lived in Belleville would join us there. What fun. So many laughs and irreverent teasing are all part of the memories which warm my heart.
Bob I miss you, but I’m thankful you are no longer locked in a frail body and your mind is once again free. Yours was a brilliant mind; your laughter infectious and your presence so big!
We were all proud of your accomplishments and proud, too, that your compassionate heart made you determined to do so much to help others.
It is hard to believe you are gone from this earth, but you will never be gone from our hearts. It is with sadness we say goodbye. But we are blessed to have known you and loved you.
Jean Aston
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Frank and Rosaleen Kelly posted a condolence
Monday, July 6, 2020
to valerie and family
from frank and rosaleen kelly
for bob
when we heard that bob had passed away
we thought that robbie burns should play
a part in our condolences
with rhyming scottish cadences
that bob had held in some esteem
but searching through the ream on ream
of burns laments and elegies
did not yield one as fit to please
as thon burns song the whole world knows
and sings when an auld year sadly goes
so here for bob it's on the harp
making memories of him sharp
copy and paste this url on your browser to listen to an audio clip
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Simon Craig uploaded photo(s)
Friday, July 3, 2020
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Bob and his partner Valerie, 2008.
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Simon Craig uploaded photo(s)
Friday, July 3, 2020
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Bob wearing his kilt, of which he was very proud.
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Sarah Swartz posted a condolence
Thursday, July 2, 2020
Dear Bob, he welcomed me into his homes that he shared with Valerie, on Hogarth Ave and at Lauderbach, with much grace – even though it must have been difficult for him to witness Valerie and my unrelenting chatter. At Hogarth, whenever I came to visit from Boston, he generously gave up his bedroom to me. I would open his closet to hang up my things and see his well-ironed shirts and his beautifully tailored jackets, neatly sorted, and smile to myself. At the bottom of his closet, there were always multiple rolls of colourful, shiny Christmas paper with which he would wrap the wonderful wildlife calendars that he gave to all the grandchildren – including mine – when we came to Toronto at Christmas time. When he opened my gifts to him – usually a book by one of his favorite authors, the Boston theologian James Carroll who wrote about reconciliation between Jews and Catholics – he would thank me profusely and immediately begin to read.
Until the days when he could read no longer. When I came to Canada two or three times a year, it was very sad for me to see him change from an intellectually alert, capable, sensitive and dashingly handsome man to his later emaciated state at Nesbitt Lodge. The last time I saw him briefly was this past December 2019, and I knew that there might not be a next time.
My condolences and great love go to my forever friend Valerie in this time of her grief. Valerie, you will rise again!
All my love, Sarah
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Mary McGee and Jack Lee planted a tree in memory of Robert Alexander
Thursday, July 2, 2020
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What a lovely tribute to Bob - to plant a tree that will contribute to others' health and happiness. Thinking of you, Valerie, at this time.
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Simon Craig posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 1, 2020
Dear Bob,
We first met and got to know you in 1998 when you stayed with us in Dublin with Valerie and attended David’s 50th – twenty-two years ago.
Since then we have met up on and off in Toronto over Christmases and you kindly lent us your apartment and introduced us to the hard mattress from your futon – for which I’m forever grateful!
We also have some lovely memories of visits to Lauderbach enjoying the gorgeous weather, the sense of space, the Mennonite buggies, the walks, and the chats on the porch under the moon after a delicious meal. What a place of peace.
I have also often availed of Hogarth hospitality and the kindness of yourself and Valerie in making me feel part of the family. Your compassion towards animals was very endearing, with MacDuff becoming so relaxed in your presence.
It was sad to witness your suffering as you succumbed to ill health. It’s hard to imagine the frustration and isolation you must have experienced.
Memories are myriad but personality shines through and we are left with your legacy: your kind and generous soul, your large presence, your passion for social justice and change, your humour, curiosity and interest in people. Especially admirable was your spiritual journey where you questioned conditioning and conformity and chose the road less travelled to forge your own path accompanied along the way by your soul mate Valerie who loved and cared for you through the good and rough times.
David and I were planting a new garden when we got news of your passing and we both said RIP Bob and have dedicated two Australian ferns to your memory. They have strong sturdy trunks and delicate green ferns – a fitting tribute to you.
My last memory of you is having a picnic on the roof of your care home with Valerie and myself. It was a hot day and we were celebrating life. May we all meet again at a giant picnic.
Know that you were well loved by those around you. Lovely to have known you
Bob.
With love
Sarah and David
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Liz Janzen posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 1, 2020
Valerie, you and your family are in my thoughts and heart. I remember hiring Bob as a community health officer in Toronto Public Health. He was a positive contributor and influencer in many good projects and initiatives over the years. Sending love. Liz
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Sarah Swartz uploaded photo(s)
Wednesday, July 1, 2020
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A tree was planted in memory of Robert Alexander
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
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I only knew Bob from our scrap-booking sessions at Bridgepoint with the glorious Victoria. We fought over her affections. Bob won.
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Simon Craig uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
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Bob in his later years.
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Jon Alexander lit a candle
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
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I light a candle to represent the light that filled my Dad's life, and the light he brought to all our lives.
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A tree was planted in memory of Robert Alexander
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
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To a wonderful friend and colleague. Rest in peace.
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Nathan & Staff of eco posted a symbolic gesture
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
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May this web page designed in tribute to Bob bring comfort to those who share photos, memories and stories here.
Warmly,
Nathan Romagnoli & Staff of eco
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Melanie Macdonald-Muns posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
To dear Val, Rachel, Simon and family, You are all much on my mind this morning and in my heart. Skip and I send our deepest sympathies as you face this heart-wrenching loss today. I am grateful for Bob's life. It was my great privilege to know him. With love, Melanie Macdonald-Muns, Lexington, Kentucky
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Skip Muns and Melanie Maconald-Muns planted a tree in memory of Robert Alexander
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
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With our deepest sympathies to all who loved Bob. Please feel the comfort being extended by so many from near and far.
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Emer and Brad planted a tree in memory of Robert Alexander
Tuesday, June 30, 2020
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Valerie Hepburn uploaded photo(s)
Monday, June 29, 2020
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Don, Nan, and Bob (far right) circa 1944
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Simon Craig uploaded photo(s)
Monday, June 29, 2020
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Bob with his Mother and Father on the occasion of his parents' 50th wedding anniversary.
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Simon Craig uploaded photo(s)
Monday, June 29, 2020
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Bob on vacation in Ireland.
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The family of Robert Pattison Alexander uploaded a photo
Monday, June 29, 2020
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